I actually find it strangely amusing how many people dislike Heather and find they need to try to make their points WHY they dislike her or what she does, as though her existence is some sort of threat to their own personal existence. Here's a very simple solution: If you don't like her/what she does, DON'T READ IT ... I think what Leta will get from this, above any embarrassment, is confidence. That she can talk to her mother about absolutely anything. That her mother loves her, no matter what she does. That it's OK to not be 'perfect.'